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Bride buying or bride purchasing is the cultural practice of providing some form of payment in exchange for a bride. The payment may be made to the bride's father, family, or a separate agent. It is the
when treated as a transfer of property from one "owner" to another.History
In his
One of the first recorded instances of bride-buying in North America can be traced back to 1619 in
Mail-order brides
One of the most common forms of modern-day bride-buying is mail-order brides. It is estimated that there are 90 agencies that deal with the selling and purchasing of mail order brides.[6] These agencies have websites that list the addresses, pictures, names and biographies of up to 25,000 women that are seeking husbands, with American husbands being the most common preference.[citation needed][dubious ] While there are women listed on these sites from all over the world, the majority of mail-order brides come from Russia and the Philippines. According to these agencies,[where?] 10% of women who choose to become mail-order brides are successful and find a husband through their services. The agencies also state that there are around 10,000 mail-order marriages a year, with about 4,000 of these marriages involving men in the United States.[citation needed]
Bride-buying in Asia
China
Bride-buying is an old tradition in China.
After bearing children, Chinese women who are bought as wives are more prone to staying within the marriage. Fang Yuzhu of the China Women's Federation credits it with a "strong sense of duty" that Chinese women have, and the idea that it is shameful to leave their husband. Yuzhu also credits that some women might consider their forced marriage a better option to the life of poverty and hard labor they would be subject to upon returning home or the idea that some women may not feel they can find another husband, since they "have already been with one".[9]
India
According to Punjabi writer Kirpal Kazak, bride-selling began in Jharkhand after the arrival of the Rajputs. The tribe decorate the women for sale with ornaments. The practice of the sale of women as brides declined after the Green Revolution in India, the “spread of literacy”, and the improvement of the male-female ratio since 1911. The ratio, however, declined in 2001. The practice of bride-purchasing became confined to the poor sections of society such as farmers, Scheduled Castes, and tribes. In poverty-stricken families, only one son gets married due to poverty and to “avoid the division of landed property”.[11]
Korea
Bride-buying in
Vietnam
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Bride-buying in Africa
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Literature
Literature that delves into the selling women as brides includes titles such as Eho Hamara Jeevna[26] by Punjabi novelist Dalip Kaur Tiwana, the play Ik Hor Ramayan[27] by playwright Ajmer Singh Aulakh, Buying a Bride:An Engaging History of Mail-Order Matches[28] by Marcia A. Zug, Object: Matrimony: The Risky Business Of Mail-Order Matchmaking On The Western Frontier[29] by Chris Enss, the epic Vietnamese poem The Tale of Kieu by Nguyễn Du, the novel Tat Den by Ngo Tat To,[30] and the novel Buying the Bride by Penny Wylder.[31]
See also
- Mail-order bride
- Picture bride
- Bride kidnapping
- Bride price
- Arranged marriage
- Arranged marriage in India
- Human trafficking in India
- Human trafficking in Vietnam
- Human trafficking in the People's Republic of China
- Wife selling
- Wife selling (English custom)
- The Bartered Bride
- Female foeticide in India
- Lobolo
References
- Hist., Book I, Ch. 196.
- ^ Rioseco, Hanna (May 14, 2018). "The Real Housewives of Jamestown". thirteen.org. Retrieved 2019-02-17.
- ^ "The First Residents of Jamestown". NPS. February 26, 2015. Retrieved February 18, 2019.
- ^ "The Indispensable Role of Women at Jamestown". NPS. February 26, 2015. Retrieved February 18, 2019.
- ^ Zug, Marcia (2016-08-31). "The Mail-Order Brides of Jamestown, Virginia" (PDF). The Atlantic: 1–7.
- ^ Scholes, Robert (April 1, 1997). "How Many Mail-Order Brides?". Immigration Review. 28: 7–10.
- ^ a b c d e Marshall, Samantha, Joanne Lee-Young, and Matt Forney, Vietnamese Women Are Kidnapped and Later Sold in China as Brides, in The Wall Street Journal, Aug. 3, 1999.
- ^ Mercenary Marriages Cause Turmoil in C China (Xinhua), in China Daily USA, section China, subsection Hot Issues, updated Sep. 2, 2011, 10:46p, as accessed Nov. 9 & 11, 2011.
- ^ a b c d Fang, Bay; Leong, Mark (1998). "China's stolen wives". U.S. News & World Report. 125 (14): 35. Retrieved 17 October 2011.(subscription required)
- ^ Baloch, Saher (14 May 2019). "The Pakistani brides being trafficked to China". BBC.
- ^ a b c Dhaliwal, Sarbjit. Bride-buying an old practice in north India, Tribune News Service, August 17, tribuneindia.com
- ^ a b c d Agal, Renu. India's 'bride buying' country Archived 2013-04-19 at archive.today, BBC News, April 2006
- ^ a b c Sharma, Kavitta and Divya Shah. Only in India: cheaper to buy bride than raise daughter, CNN-IBN, ibnlive.in.com
- ^ Gierstorfer, Carl (September 11, 2013). "Where Have India's Females Gone?". pulitzercenter.org. Retrieved 2019-02-20.
- ^ a b c "North Korean Women Sold in China". Radio Free Asia.
- ^ a b c "Thousands of North Korean Women Sold as Slaves in China". Radio Free Asia.
- ^ "South Korean subsidies encourage foreign 'bride buying'". The Daily Star. 2019-02-18.
- S2CID 145510675.
- ^ a b "Mate-in-Vietnam Marriages | YaleGlobal Online". yaleglobal.yale.edu. Retrieved 2019-02-21.
- ISSN 1559-372X.
- ^ a b c Wray, Caroline (2014-12-05). "The Wife Market". The Yale Globalist. Archived from the original on 22 Feb 2019. Retrieved 2019-02-21.
- ^ a b c Lee, Eunsung. Politics of Cultural Proximity: Transnational Marriage and Family Making Among Vietnamese Women and South Korean Men in the 21st Century (Thesis).
- ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved 2019-02-21.
- ^ Chiwese, Manase. "Wives at the Market Place:Commercialisation of Lobola and Commodification of Women's bodies in Zimbabwe". researchgate.net.
- S2CID 129949139.
- ^ Tiwana, Dalip (1968). Eho Hamara Jeevna.
- ^ Aulakh, Ajmer (2014). Ik Ramayan Hor Ate Hor Ikangi.
- ISBN 978-0-8147-7181-5.
- ISBN 978-0762773992.
- ^ Ngo Tat To (1995). Tat den: tieu thuyet (Tai ban ed.). TP. Ho Chi Minh: Van nghe Thanh pho Ho Chi Minh.
- ^ "Buying the Bride". www.goodreads.com. Retrieved 2019-02-21.
Further reading
- Gates, Hill. Buying brides in China - again
- Gregg, William. "BUY A BRIDE"