Loelia Lindsay

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Lady Lindsay
The Duchess of Westminster by Glyn Philpot
Personal details
Born
Loelia Mary Ponsonby

(1902-02-06)6 February 1902
Died1 November 1993(1993-11-01) (aged 91)
NationalityBritish
Spouse(s)
(m. 1930; div. 1947)

(m. 1969)
Parent(s)Frederick Ponsonby, 1st Baron Sysonby
Victoria Kennard
Occupationembroiderer, socialite, magazine editor
Loelia, Duchess of Westminster, by William Acton

Loelia Mary, Lady Lindsay (

née Ponsonby; 6 February 1902 – 1 November 1993), was a British socialite, needlewoman and magazine editor.[1]

Family and first marriage

Lindsay was the only daughter of the courtier

Bright Young People, she met the twice-divorced, 22-years senior, Hugh Grosvenor, 2nd Duke of Westminster. They were married on 20 February 1930 in a blaze of publicity, with Winston Churchill as the best man, but were unable to have children.[2] Her marriage to the enormously wealthy peer was described by James Lees-Milne as "a definition of unadulterated hell". It was dissolved in 1947 after years of separation.[3]

Life after divorce

After her divorce, Loelia, Duchess of Westminster, established herself as a skilful hostess at

Lindsay is believed to have popularised the aphorism (falsely attributed to Margaret Thatcher): "Anybody seen in a bus over the age of 30 has been a failure in life", which appears to have been coined by poet Brian Howard.[4]

Lindsay's second marriage, to the divorced explorer

Second World Wars.[3]

References

  1. ^ a b c d Lees-Milne, James (3 November 1993). "Obituary: Loelia Lindsay". The Independent. Retrieved 21 April 2022.
  2. ^ "Anne Duchess of Westminster". The Daily Telegraph. Archived from the original on 9 April 2023.
  3. ^ a b c d e Lady Lindsay of Dowhill
  4. ^ Panjwani, Abbas (26 April 2019). "Did Margaret Thatcher say bus users over the age of 25 were failures?". Full Fact. Retrieved 1 April 2020.

Further reading

  • Grace and Favour: The Memoirs of Loelia, Duchess of Westminster, Weidenfeld & Nicolson, 1961.
  • Cocktails & laughter: the albums of Loelia Lindsay (Loelia, Duchess of Westminster),