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Philosophy of love is the field of
Current theories
There are many different theories that attempt to explain what love is, and what function it serves. Among the prevailing types of theories that attempt to account for the existence of love there are: psychological theories, evolutionary theories, and spiritual theories. The vast majority of psychological theories consider love to be very healthy behavior. Evolutionary theories hold that love is part of the process of natural selection. Spiritual theories consider love to be a gift from God. There are also theories that consider love to be an unexplainable mystery, very much like a mystical experience.
Western traditions
Classical roots
The roots of the classical philosophy of love go back to Plato's Symposium.[3] Plato's Symposium digs deeper into the idea of love and bringing different interpretations and points of view in order to define love.[4] Plato singles out three main threads of love that have continued to influence the philosophies of love that followed.
- The idea of two loves, one heavenly, one earthly. As
- Aristophanes' conception of mankind as the product of the splitting in two of an original whole: Freud would later draw on this myth - "everything about these primaeval men was double: they had four hands and four feet, two faces"[6] - to support his theory of the repetition compulsion.
- Plato's sublimation theory of love - "mounting upwards...from one to two, and from two to all fair forms, and from fair forms to fair actions, and from fair actions to fair notions, until from fair notions he arrives at the notion of absolute beauty".[7]
Aristotle by contrast placed more emphasis on philia (friendship, affection) than on eros (love);[8] and the relationship of friendship and love would continue to be played out into and through the Renaissance,[9] with Cicero for the Latins pointing out that "it is love (amor) from which the word 'friendship' (amicitia) is derived"[10] Meanwhile, Lucretius, building on the work of Epicurus, had both praised the role of Venus as "the guiding power of the universe", and criticized those who became "love-sick...life's best years squandered in sloth and debauchery".[11]
Eros in Greek, also known as Cupid, was the mischievous god of love. He was a companion of the goddess Aphrodite. Eros was known for sparking the flame of love in gods and men. He is known for being portrayed as being armed with a bow and arrows or a flaming torch. He is also known for being disobedient but a loyal child of Aphrodite.[12]
Philia love is the type of friendship love. In Greek, this translated to brotherly love. Aristotle was able to describe three main types of friendships. These are Useful, Pleasurable, and Virtue.[13] Useful is when a friendship has a benefit to it which is derived by desire. Pleasurable is based on pleasure that one receives. Virtue is when it is based on true friendship and not receiving anything from it.
Agape in Greek simply means love. The presence of agape love is when there is goodwill, benevolence, and willful delight in the object of love.[14] This type of love does not relate to that of romantic nor sexual love. Nor does it refer to Philia type of love where it is a close friendship or brotherly love. What sets this love apart is how it involves the natural actions of spirituality, such as through religiously-guided generosity and compassion to all.[15][16]
Petrarchism
Among his love-sick targets,
French skepticism
A more skeptical French tradition can be traced from
Western philosophers of love
- Hesiod
- Empedocles
- Plato (Symposium)
- St Augustine
- Thomas Aquinas
- Leon Hebreo
- Baruch Spinoza
- Nicolas Malebranche
- Jean-Pierre Rousselot
- Antonio Caso Andrade
- Sigmund Freud
- Søren Kierkegaard - Works of Love
- Carl Jung
- Anders Nygren
- Martin D'Arcy
- Philosophy of Love: A Partial Summing-Up
- Arthur Schopenhauer - "Metaphysics of Love"
- Thomas Jay Oord
- Friedrich Nietzsche
- Max Stirner "Egoistic Love"
- Max Scheler "The Nature of Sympathy"
- Erich Fromm, author of The Art of Loving
- C. S. Lewis, "The Four Loves"
- Michel Onfray, author of Théorie du corps amoureux : pour une érotique solaire (2000)
- Karl Popper
- Jean-Luc Marion, "The Erotic Phenomenon"
- Luce Irigaray, "The Way of Love"
- bell hooks - All About Love: New Visions
- Roger Scruton - Notes from Underground
- Carrie Ichikawa Jenkins
Eastern traditions
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- Given what
- More soberly, the Hindu tradition of friendship as the basis for love in marriage can be traced back to the early times of the Vedas.[29]
- Confucius is sometimes seen as articulating a philosophy (as opposed to religion) of love.[30]
Love in Hinduism
Love in Hinduism is referred to as devotional love, or love for a divine purpose.[31] Swami Vivekananda, a Hindu monk and philosopher said, "All things in the universe are of divine origin and deserve to be loved; it has, however, to be borne in mind that the love of the whole includes the love of the parts."[32]
Love in Buddhism
In Buddhism love is meant to be universal, to reach enlightenment, love must be for all humankind.[31] The Dhammapada instructs "pluck out your self-love as you would pull off a faded lotus in autumn. Strive on the path of peace, the path of NIRVANA shown by Buddha."[33]
Love in Confucianism
Love in Confucianism places importance on love in human affairs.[31] Ren is a virtue of Confucianism meaning benevolent love that is central to their teachings, and focuses on different social relationships.[34] In Book IV of The Analects of Confucius it says,
"4.1 The Master said, to settle in ren is the fairest course. If one chooses not to dwell amidst ren, whence will come knowledge?
4.7 The Master said, people make error according to the type of person they are. By observing their errors, you can understand ren."[35]
See also
- Attachment theory
- Agape
- Diotima of Mantinea
- Eroticism
- Free love
- Intimate relationship
- Love Is...
- Roman de la Rose
- Sexual relationship
References
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- ^ Lawrence Sterne, The Life and Opinions of Tristram Shandy (1976) p. 560-1
- ^ S. Freud, On Metapsychology (PFL 11) p. 331
- ^ B. Jowett trans, The Essential Plato (1999) p. 746
- ^ Aristotle, Ethics (1976) p. 377-9
- ^ William C. Carroll ed., The Two Gentlemen of Verona (2004) p. 3-23
- ^ Quoted in Carroll, p. 11
- ^ Lucretius, On the Nature of the Universe (1961) p. 27 and p. 163-5
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- ^ "Philia: Love In Friendships | BetterHelp". www.betterhelp.com. Retrieved 2021-11-23.
- ^ "What Is Agape Love?". Bishop William B. Caractor's blog. Retrieved 2022-01-21.
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- ^ Fay, Jim (2000). Love and Logic Magic for Early Childhood. Love and Logic Press.
- ^ Helen Waddell, The Wandering Scholars (1968) p. 20 and p. 26
- ^ K. Clark, Civilisation (1969) p. 64-5
- ^ Carroll, p. 31
- ^ Irving Singer, The Nature of Love (2009) p. 360-1
- ^ G. Brereton, A Short History of French Literature (1954) p. 243
- ^ Adam Phillips, On Flirtation (1994) p. 39
- ^ Luce Irigaray, Sharing the World (2008) p. 49 and p. 36
- ^ Max Weber, The Sociology of Religion (1971) p.236
- ^ Carl Jung, Man and his Symbols (1978) p. 81 and p. 357
- ^ Sophy Hoare, Yoga (1980) p. 19
- ^ Margo Anand, The Art of Sexual Ecstasy (1990) p. 38-47
- ^ Quoted in E. Conze, Buddhist Scriptures (1973) p. 178
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- ^ F. Yang/J. Taamney, Confucianism (2011) p. 289
- ^ a b c Ding, Z. (1995, Fall). ""Love" and the Eastern Spirit: a philosophic perspective." The Cal Poly Pomona Journal of Interdisciplinary Studies, 8, 183-189.
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- ^ Confucius. (1979). The analects (Lun yü). Harmondsworth ; New York :Penguin Books
Further reading
- Thomas Jay Oord, Defining Love (2010)
- C. S. Lewis, The Allegory of Love (1936)
- Theodor Reik, Psychology of Sex Relations (1961)
- Camille Paglia, Sexual Personae (1992)
- Glen Pettigrove, Forgiveness and Love (Oxford University Press, 2012).
- Thomas Jay Oord, The Nature of Love (2010)
External links
- Love and Reasons (Special issue of Essays in Philosophy)
- "Philosophy of Love" article in the Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy
- Singer & Santayana On Love
- Entry on love in the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy
- ^ WILLIAM M. KEPHART. (1970). The “Dysfunctional” Theory of Romantic Love: A Research Report. Journal of Comparative Family Studies, 1(1), 26–36.