You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah
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| Directed by | Sammi Cohen |
| Written by | Alison Peck |
| Based on | You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah by Fiona Rosenbloom |
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| Cinematography | Ben Hardwicke |
| Edited by | Jamie Keeney |
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| Distributed by | Netflix |
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Running time | 103 minutes |
| Country | United States |
| Language | English |
You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah is a 2023 American
Produced by Happy Madison Productions and Alloy Entertainment, the film was released by Netflix on August 25, 2023.[1][2]
Plot
Stacy Friedman dreams about her upcoming bat mitzvah, including sharing it with her best friend Lydia Rodriguez Katz, and sharing a dance with her crush, Andy Goldfarb. She clashes with her parents, Bree and Danny, over planning a "perfect" party, which she believes will determine her future.
When popular student Kym Chang Cohen invites Lydia to her house, Stacy tags along. The girls go on a high ledge, where Andy and his friends meet up with them. On a dare and to impress Andy, Stacy agrees to jump off the ledge into the water below. Enjoying Andy's and everyone's approval is short-lived, however, as Stacy's bloody maxi-pad floats up next to her. Angry that everyone, including Lydia, is laughing at her, Stacy "calls it", and Lydia announces the time that she lost her crush on Andy.
Once school starts, Stacy learns that Lydia and Andy are dating. Feeling betrayed, Stacy stops talking to Lydia and sends a text message to an anonymous group that Lydia has long hair on her nipples. Stacy even sabotages an entrance video she was making for Lydia's upcoming bat mitzvah with humiliating personal video clips. However, she does not send it.
Stacy continues trying to get Andy's attention and visits his grandmother's retirement home. She tries to look older and more popular, and argues with her parents over planning her bat mitzvah. Andy eventually offers to give Stacy her first kiss. Hiding behind the curtains of a Torah ark, they are interrupted by their teacher, Rabbi Rebecca, which leads to more fighting between her and her father.
Lydia's mother, Gabi, unaware Stacy and Lydia are fighting, arrives at the Friedman house, and asks Bree for the entrance video for Lydia's bat mitzvah. Not realizing what the video contains, Bree sends it to her. At Lydia's bat mitzvah, the entrance video is played. Although Stacy tries to get the video stopped, the damage is done. As Lydia walks into her party, she runs off and angrily chastises Stacy.
At Stacy's bat mitzvah day, she starts to
Afterwards, Stacy runs through town to apologize to Lydia and invites her to her party later that night. When Lydia and her parents arrive, they are surprised that Stacy has made it into a party for Lydia, too, and the girls make up. Stacy starts dancing with Matteo, a foreign classmate who has been interested in her.
Sometime later, Stacy, Lydia, and their friends have a bake sale to help the retirement home.
Cast
- Idina Menzel as Bree Friedman, Stacy and Ronnie's mother
- Jackie Sandler as Gabi Rodriguez Katz, Lydia's mother
- Adam Sandler as Danny Friedman, Stacy and Ronnie's father
- Sadie Sandler as Ronnie Friedman, a high school student and Stacy's older sister
- Sunny Sandler as Stacy Friedman, a middle school student looking forward to her bat mitzvah
- Samantha Lorraine as Lydia Rodriguez Katz, Stacy's half-Jewish, half-Hispanic best friend
- Dylan Hoffman as Andy Goldfarb, Stacy's classmate and love interest
- Sarah Sherman as Rebecca, a rabbi
- Dan Bulla as Jerry, a cantor
- Ido Mosseri as DJ Schmuley, an Israeli DJ who performs at both Lydia and Stacy's bat mitzvahs
- Jackie Hoffman as Irene, an elder in Stacy's synagogue congregation
- Luis Guzmán as Eli Rodriguez, Lydia's father
- Beth Hall as Julie
The rest of the cast includes Dean Scott Vazquez as Matteo, an
Production
In 2022,
Release
You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah was released by Netflix on August 25, 2023.[8]
Reception
On the
References
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- ^ Rubin, Rebecca (July 14, 2022). "Adam Sandler and His Family to Star in 'You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah' Movie at Netflix". Variety. Archived from the original on May 11, 2023. Retrieved May 11, 2023.
- ^ Grobar, Matt (August 24, 2022). "'Purple Hearts' Producer Alloy Entertainment Unveils Film Development Slate; Includes Adaptations Of Books 'Getting Rid Of Matthew', 'Pyrates', 'Kisses & Croissants' And '99 Days'". Deadline Hollywood. Archived from the original on October 14, 2022. Retrieved October 14, 2022.
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- ^ Grobar, Matt (July 13, 2022). "Adam Sandler, Idina Menzel & 'SNL's Sarah Sherman Among Cast Set For Netflix's YA Comedy 'You Are So Not Invited To My Bat Mitzvah'; Happy Madison & Alloy Entertainment Producing". Deadline. Archived from the original on July 13, 2022. Retrieved August 20, 2022.
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