Alexander Dmitriev-Mamonov
Count Alexander Matveyevich Dmitriev-Mamonov (
Biography
A scion of the
In 1787, the Empress asked her "redcoat"
Soon enough he fell in love with a 16-year-old lady-in-waiting to the Empress, Princess Shcherbatova, and took her to spend several weeks in the privacy of Dubrovitsy, a luxurious estate near Moscow which Catherine had purchased from Potemkin and donated to Mamonov. When his enemies[3] took advantage of the situation to inform Catherine about the liaison, the Empress was shocked and embittered. Unable to believe that a lover could betray her for a girl who could have been her granddaughter, she allegedly stooped to spreading rumors about his having gone mad.
Catherine's personal secretary recorded in his diary that he saw Mamonov and his fiancee on their knees asking and obtaining forgiveness of the sovereign.[4] Having received a wedding present of 100,000 roubles and 2,250 serfs, the newlyweds were commanded to leave the capital. They settled in Moscow. A year later, Mamonov started to regret the missed opportunities and wrote repentant letters to the Empress, claiming that their rupture "constantly tortures his soul."
Although he never received an answer,[5] the Empress seems to have regarded him kindly until her death. There is no truth in the gossip that "Catherine revenged herself on the loose-tongued Shcherbatova by secretly sending policemen disguised as women to whip her in her husband's presence."[6] She did, however, prevent Maria Shkurina, a maid of honor who she suspected of acting as a matchmaker for Shcherbatova, from rejoining the Mamonovs in Moscow.[7]
Count Matvey Dmitriev-Mamonov was his only son and heir.
Notes
- ^ They were distant relatives. During the pinnacle of his power, Mamonov presented Potemkin with a gold teapot with the inscription: plus unis par le cœur que par le sang.
- ^ This was her pet name for Mamonov.
- ^ Mamonov was not on speaking terms with Bezborodko and at loggerheads with Catherine's intimate confidante, Anna Protasova.
- ^ The diary belongs to Alexander Khrapovitsky, a friend of Mamonov and Derzhavin: "Tears... they spent the evening in bed... He has asked to resign."
- ^ In a letter to Potemkin, Catherine commented: "There are signs that he had a desire to stay with his wife at court as before, finally a thousand contradictions and irrational behaviour, such that his closest friends do not justify him."
- ^ Alexander 222.
- ^ When she at last allowed Shkurina to abandon the court and join them in a ménage à trois, Catherine quipped in a letter that "these two busy-bodies will kill him."
References
- John T. Alexander. Catherine the Great: Life and Legend. Oxford University Press, 1989.
- Russian Biographical Dictionary (online version).