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Please Miss
ISBN
978-1-5416-2065-0
Websitehttp://www.gracelavery.org/please-miss/

Please Miss: A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Penis is a February 2022

tenure
as a professor impacted her outlook on life, with the content being disjointed in topic and theme from chapter to chapter.

Lavery wanted a more metaphorical outlook on the subject and, to that end, one of the most noted features in the book is a series of unhinged letters from aggressive

clowns that represents various negative personas and concepts. The work was well received by critics, who praised how accurately it manages to portray the trans experience through metaphor
and concept, though some noted that its approach made it difficult for some concepts to come across to readers not personally involved with or knowledgeable on the subject matter.

Background

Lavery stated that, despite the book being an autobiography that she has essentially been writing all her life, the origin point for the actual book was after she started to transition in 2018. This coincided with her tenure application occurring at the University of California, Berkeley. The two events happening simultaneously created a juxtaposition that resulted in her writing down her experiences. How to express this, particularly in relation to issues involving the Trump administration, resulted in the format of the book where multiple methods of expression are used.[2] She stated that her method of devising the book involved it being entirely written on the "notes app of her phone" in small portions over an extended period of time.[3]

Content

The book opens with a discussion between Lavery and her partner

literary genres and whether trans experiences need to be entirely lived to be included in an autobiography. Lavery argues that no one work could encompass the whole of experiences for the trans community, but that an absurdist work that covers a wide range of subjects could better express her purpose.[4] She noted in an interview that writing a memoir that just straightforwardly presented facts about her life would be less informative than representing metaphorical experiences, though she also pointed out that chapter four is written more directly as a juxtaposition to the rest of the book before and after it in order to make the reader unsettled about the "intimate disclosure" in the chapter.[5]

A series of maniacal and confrontational letters are featured throughout the work that are written by

clowns and addressed to the author, with the clowns featuring "someone who doesn’t take themselves seriously but who also is horrifying" and representing a variety of potential problems including "a bad trans woman or the idea of gender dysphoria" and "a monstrous, extreme representation of whiteness".[4]

The book is dedicated to Lavery's mother and frequently discusses her, their relationship, and Lavery's life experiences with her family.[5]

Critical reception

Them magazine's Daniel Spielberger said that the book "blends surrealist autofiction with literary theory, resulting in a complex, multi-layered work that’s as puzzling as it is enchanting."[4] Katie Tobin for Dazed magazine stated that the central question raised in Please Miss is "What does it truly mean to transition?" and that the book covers this by being "meditations on sex, gender, and pop culture with a bold vulgarity and dazzling wit".[6] Barry Pierce in The Irish Times complimented Lavery's use of metaphor in relation to trans identity, whose "result is an untamed beast, a vast scrapbook of lengthy asides, harrowing recollections and literary analysis". Also that the book's "structural messiness and lack of a narrative flow" manages to be perfectly representative of the topic discussed, resulting in a "weird and wonderful work".[7] Sarah Ditum writing for The Times referred to the book as a "tiresome, taboo-trashing trans memoir".[8] The Herald reviewer Alastair Mabbott noted that the readers who can follow the "academic trains of thought" presented in the book will be able to gain the most insight, but that everyone else might be tired from Lavery's "scattershot energy and breathless narration", though they would also be "unable to deny that she’s shattered expectations with an inventive and provocative memoir".[9]

For

Lux Magazine contended that Please Miss manages to "remind us that queer struggle can be funny, joyous, and sexy, and sometimes the best response to TERFs is a cackle".[12]

References

  1. ^ Lewis, Alison (February 2022). "Please Miss: A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Penis". Publishers Weekly. Archived from the original on October 29, 2022. Retrieved October 29, 2022.
  2. ^ Clifton, Mallen (February 9, 2022). "An Exchange of Letters: Interview with Grace Lavery, author of Please Miss". Berkeley Fiction Review. Archived from the original on November 27, 2022. Retrieved November 26, 2022.
  3. ^ a b Copes, Andreas (March 1, 2022). ""Please Miss" is a mosaic memoir of trans experience". Philadelphia Gay News. Archived from the original on November 30, 2022. Retrieved January 17, 2023.
  4. ^ a b c Spielberger, Daniel (February 8, 2022). "Grace Lavery Wants to Send in the Clowns". Them. Archived from the original on November 5, 2022. Retrieved October 5, 2022.
  5. ^ a b Gregory, Drew Burnett (February 8, 2022). "Grace Lavery on Her New Memoir "Please Miss," Sex Writing, and the Trans Glamour of Nicole Kidman". Autostraddle. Archived from the original on January 8, 2023. Retrieved January 8, 2023.
  6. ^ Tobin, Katie (February 15, 2022). "Author Grace Lavery: 'Being a trans woman is very strange'". Dazed. Archived from the original on December 31, 2022. Retrieved December 30, 2022.
  7. ^ Pierce, Barry (February 18, 2022). "Please Miss by Grace Lavery: A weird and wonderful work on the trans experience". The Irish Times. Archived from the original on January 11, 2023. Retrieved January 10, 2023.
  8. ^ Ditum, Sarah (February 7, 2022). "Please Miss: A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Penis by Grace Lavery review". The Times. Archived from the original on January 11, 2023. Retrieved January 10, 2023.
  9. ^ Mabbott, Alastair (February 13, 2022). "Please Miss by Grace Lavery; My Father's Diet by Adrian Nathan West; Asylum Road by Olivia Sudjic: paperback reviews". The Herald. Archived from the original on January 11, 2023. Retrieved January 10, 2023.
  10. ^ Bowles, Emily (January 2022). "Social Sciences: Please Miss". Library Journal. Archived from the original on February 15, 2023. Retrieved January 10, 2023 – via ProQuest.
  11. ^ Wark, McKenzie (February 2022). "Cocky as Hell". Liber. Vol. 1, no. 1. Archived from the original on January 18, 2023. Retrieved January 17, 2023.
  12. Lux Magazine. No. 5. Archived
    from the original on January 18, 2023. Retrieved January 17, 2023.
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