Gift
This article needs additional citations for verification. (September 2018) |
A gift or present is an item given to someone (who is not already the owner) without the expectation of payment or anything in return. Although gift-giving might involve an expectation of reciprocity, a gift is intended to be free. In many countries, the act of mutually exchanging
History
![]() | This section needs expansion. You can help by adding to it. (January 2025) |
Gift-giving has played a central role in social and economic systems throughout human history. Anthropologist Marcel Mauss argued in The Gift (1925) that gifts in archaic societies were embedded in systems of obligation, where the act of giving, receiving, and reciprocating created enduring social bonds.[1] In many early civilizations, gifts were used for religious offerings, royal tribute, diplomatic negotiations, and public displays of generosity by elites. Over time, gift-giving evolved into a broader practice encompassing both ceremonial and personal exchanges.
Ancient
![]() | This section is empty. You can help by adding to it. (January 2025) |
In Ancient Egypt and Mesopotamia, gifts were presented to rulers and deities as symbols of devotion or allegiance. Archaeological records and cuneiform tablets describe tributes of grain, livestock, and precious metals given as offerings or tokens of loyalty.[2]
In
In the Roman world, elites gave munera (public gifts or services), including gladiatorial games and food distributions, as acts of civic generosity and to enhance political reputation.[4]
In
Many ancient religious traditions also incorporated gift-giving. In the Rigveda, patrons offered cattle, gold, and horses to priests as part of ritual sacrifices.[6] In Christian tradition, the Magi's presentation of gold, frankincense, and myrrh to the infant Jesus is an early example of symbolic religious gift-giving, commemorated in modern Christmas customs.[7]
Medieval
In the 760s,
Donations to
In sixteenth and seventeenth century France, gift-giving was often patronage in disguise.[10]: 131 This was hidden by terms like grâces, bonté, and bienveillance.[10]: 137 Sometimes actual gifts were given with patron-client letters. These often included money, hunting birds, food, and cloth,[10]: 138–139 and occasionally messengers as well.[10]: 140
Modern
Gift-giving during
: xviIn the late 19th century, U.S. Christmas celebrations began to grow in scale, with more manufacturing of goods.[11]: xvii As early as 1880, the country's businesspeople had begun taking advantage of the holiday to sell more.[11]: xix
In Japan,
Recent changes in gift-giving have been influenced by technology, consumer preferences, and cultural shifts. There is a growing preference for personalized, handmade, or digitally delivered gifts over traditional store-bought items. Customized gifts like hand-drawn
Presentation
In many cultures gifts are traditionally
Gift-giving occasions


Gift-giving occasions may be:
- An expression of love or friendship
- An expression of gratitude for a gift received.
- An expression of piety, in the form of charity.
- An expression of mutual aid.
- To share wealth.
- To offset misfortune.
- Offering travel souvenirs.
- Custom, on occasions (often celebrations) such as
- A birthday (the person who has his or her birthday gives cake, etc. and/or receives gifts).
- A potlatch, in societies where status is associated with gift-giving rather than acquisition.
- Christmas (throughout the history of Christmas gift giving, people have given one another gifts, often pretending they are left by Santa Claus, the Christ Child or Saint Nicholas).
- Feast of Saint Nicholas (people give each other gifts, often supposedly receiving them from Saint Nicholas).
- chocolate rabbits are gifts given on Easter.
- Saint Basil.
- Muslims give gifts to family and friends, known as Eidi, on Eid al-Fitr (the end of Ramadan) and on Eid al-Adha.
- American Jews give Hanukkah gifts to family and friends.
- Hindus give Diwali and Pongal gifts to family and friends. Rakhi or Raksha Bandhan is another occasion where brothers give gifts to sisters.
- Buddhists give Vesakgifts to family and friends.
- Gifts are given to among African American families and friends on Kwanzaa.
- A wedding (the couple receives gifts and gives food and/or drinks at the wedding reception).
- A wedding anniversary (each spouse receives gifts).
- A funeral (visitors bring flowers, the relatives of the deceased give food and/or drinks after the ceremonial part).
- A birth (the baby receives gifts, or the mother receives a gift from the father known as a push present).
- Passing an examination (the studentreceives gifts).
- Father's Day (the father receives gifts).
- Mother's Day (the mother receives gifts).
- Siblings Day (the sibling receives gifts)
- The exchange of gifts between a guest and a host, is often a traditional practice.
- Lagniappe
- Retirement Gifts
- Congratulations Gifts
- Engagement Gifts
- Housewarming party Gifts
- Women's day Gifts
- Valentine's Day
Promotional gifts
Promotional gifts differ from regular gifts. Recipients may include employees or clients. These gifts are primarily used for advertising. They help promote the brand name and increase its awareness. In promotional gifting, the quality and presentation of the gifts are more important than the gifts themselves, as they serve as a gateway to acquire new clients or associates. [citation needed]
As reinforcement and manipulation
Giving a gift to someone is not necessarily just an altruistic act. It may be given in the hope that the receiver
Unwanted gifts
Giving the appropriate gift that aligns with the recipient's preferences poses a formidable challenge. Gift givers commonly err in the process of gift selection, either by offering gifts that the recipients' do not wish to receive or by failing to provide gifts that recipients earnestly desired. For example, givers avoid giving the same gifts more than once while recipients are more open to receiving a repeated gift,
Due to the mismatch between givers' and recipients' gift preferences, a significant fraction of gifts are unwanted, or the giver pays more for the item than the recipient values it, resulting in a misallocation of economic resources known as a
One means of reducing the mismatch between the buyer and receivers' tastes is advance coordination, often undertaken in the form of a
An estimated $3.4 billion was spent on unwanted Christmas gifts in the United States in 2017
In some cases, people know the preferences of recipients very well, and can give highly valued gifts. Some value in gift-giving comes from assisted preference discovery - people receiving gifts they did not know they would like, or which they did not know were available. Behavioral economists propose that the non-material value of gifts lies in strengthening relationships by signalling the giver was thoughtful, or spent time and effort on the gift.[28]
Legal aspects
At common law, for a gift to have legal effect, it was required that there be (1) intent by the donor to give a gift, and (2) delivery to the recipient of the item to be given as a gift.
In some countries, certain types of gifts above a certain monetary amount are subject to taxation. For the United States, see Gift tax in the United States.
In some contexts, gift giving can be construed as bribery. This tends to occur in situations where the gift is given with an implicit or explicit agreement between the giver of the gift and its receiver that some type of service will be rendered (often outside of normal legitimate methods) because of the gift. Some groups, such as government workers, may have strict rules concerning gift giving and receiving so as to avoid the appearance of impropriety.[29]
Cross border monetary gifts are subject to taxation in both source and destination countries based on the treaty between the two countries.
Religious views
In the
Ritual sacrifices can be seen as return gifts to a deity.
See also
- Alms
- Altruism
- Atonement
- Charity (practice)
- Christmas gift
- Debt relief
- Diplomatic gift
- Gift economy
- Gift (law)
- Gift tax
- Gift wrapping
- Giving circles
- Green gifting
- Omiyage
- Pasalubong
- Random act of kindness
- Red packet
- Regiving
- Xenia (Greek)
References
- ^ Mauss, Marcel. The Gift: Forms and Functions of Exchange in Archaic Societies. Routledge, 1954.
- ^ Wilkinson, Richard H. The Complete Gods and Goddesses of Ancient Egypt. Thames & Hudson, 2003.
- ^ Homer. The Odyssey, translated by Robert Fagles. Penguin Classics, 1996.
- ^ Hopkins, Keith. Conquerors and Slaves. Cambridge University Press, 1978.
- ^ Li, Chenyang. The Confucian Philosophy of Harmony. Routledge, 2013.
- ^ Griffith, Ralph T.H. The Hymns of the Rigveda. Evinity Publishing Inc., 2009.
- ^ Matthew 2:11, Holy Bible.
- ^ ISSN 0304-4181.
- ^ JSTOR 23997785.
- ^ ISSN 0269-1191.
- ^ ISBN 978-0-8147-9284-1.
- ^ ISSN 0276-1467.
- ^ a b Gordenker, Alice (2006-03-21). "White Day". The Japan Times. Retrieved 2025-01-18.
- ^ ScienceDaily, "Personalized Gifts Foster Emotional Connections," December 2024
- ^ "Custom Portraits and Personalized Books".
- ^ "The Harvard Shop".
- ^ Brigham, John Carl (1986). Social Psychology. p. 322.
- ISBN 978-0-07-144672-3.
- S2CID 219930823.
- S2CID 258819983.
- S2CID 255635981.
- ^ ISSN 0963-7214.
- ^ a b Lee, Timothy B. (December 21, 2016). "The economic case against Christmas presents". Vox. Retrieved December 5, 2017.
- ^ Mendoza, Nohely (December 26, 2017). "New Study Explores Psychology Of Giving Wedding Gifts". Nexstar Broadcasting. Waco, Texas.
- ^ a b Mendoza, Nohely. "Biggest return day of the year". Nexstar Broadcasting. Waco, Texas. Retrieved September 19, 2018.
- ^ "Americans will waste $10.1B on unwanted holiday gifts — and 53% will get a disappointing present".
- ^ Musaddique, Shafi (January 2, 2018). "Unwanted Christmas presents set to rise on busiest day of the year for returns". The Independent. Retrieved September 19, 2018.
- ^ Jeff Guo (December 19, 2014). "No, Virginia, Christmas is not an 'orgy of wealth destruction'". The Washington Post.
- ^ "Gifts and Payments". Washington, D.C.: United States Office of Government Ethics. Archived from the original on September 15, 2020. Retrieved September 19, 2018.
Further reading
- ISBN 0-393-32043-X
- ISBN 0-394-71519-5), especially part I, "A Theory of Gifts", part of which was originally published as "The Gift Must Always Move" in Co-Evolution Quarterly No. 35, Fall 1982.
- ISBN 0-8047-3410-0.
- Suzie Gibson: "Give and take: the anxiety of gift giving at Christmas", The Conversation, 16 December 2014.
- (in French) Alain Testart, Critique du don : Études sur la circulation non marchande, Paris, Collection Matériologique, éd. Syllepse, 268 p., 2007
- Review of the "World of the Gift"
- Antón, C., Camarero, C. and Gil, F. (2014), The culture of gift giving: What do consumers expect from commercial and personal contexts? Journal of Consumer Behaviour, 13: 31–41. doi: 10.1002/cb.1452
- Joel Waldfogel (2009). Scroogenomics: Why You Shouldn't Buy Presents for the Holidays. Princeton University Press. ISBN 978-0691142647.