Shatzi Weisberger
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Shatzi Weisberger | |
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Death educator | |
Organizations | |
Spouse |
Gene Weisberger
(m. 1951; sep. 1969) |
Children | 2 |
Relatives | Samuel Gompers (great-grandfather) |
Joyce "Shatzi" Weisberger (
Born in 1930 to a lesbian mother and a homophobic father, Weisberger grew up in Brooklyn and was not close with either of her parents. She was married for 18 years and adopted two children, but broke off the marriage after reading
As a nurse, Weisberger focused on
Early life
Shatzi Weisberger was born Joyce Schatzberg
Weisberger's
Weisberger was married to a man named Gene Weisberger for 18 years,[1] and they had a son and a daughter,[9] adopted from Greece and California respectively;[1] she left the unhappy[1] marriage after reading The Feminine Mystique. She later realized she was a lesbian.[6] Weisberger became estranged from her children.[9]
Career
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Weisberger worked as a nurse for 47 years, focusing on obstetrics and end-of-life care.[10] Her nursing career saw the peak of deaths caused by HIV/AIDS in New York in the 1980s, and she worked as a home care nurse for those dying of the disease.[5]
In the 2010s, Weisberger sought out education about
Activism
Weisberger was a
Weisberger was present at numerous protests and demonstrations in New York, leading
In 2021, Weisberger cited her age as a positive contributor to her activism, explaining that her presence "brings attention to the issues that matter" and expressing an intent to participate in "as many demonstrations as I possibly can".[3]
Views on Zionism
For some time I thought Israel could reform itself. But I don't believe that at all anymore. I realised that I can't be a Zionist. No way. It is such an injustice, such cruelty, such distortion.
Weisberger, as quoted in Middle East Eye[3]
Weisberger grew up as a
As she became associated with the
Weisberger was a member of Jewish Voice for Peace and associated with its New York City chapter for the last six years of her life,[4] and told Middle East Eye in 2021 that being part of a community of Jewish anti-Zionists made it "much easier to protest against Zionism than it was before".[3]
Later life and death
In her later life Weisberger was diagnosed with
In 2018, Weisberger held a "FUN-eral" for herself in the common room of an Upper West Side apartment building. Guests decorated a cardboard coffin, ate and sang, and Weisberger spoke about death and dying.[11] Wearing a colorful floral blouse for the occasion, she said that she wanted to experience her own death and "to share the experience with anybody who’s interested".[9] She told John Leland of The New York Times that she had worried she might die before hosting the funeral.[16]
Weisberger experienced symptoms of a heart attack in 2020 during the
In April 2022, Weisberger told the LGBTQ&A podcast[18] that she hoped to have time to experience the dying process in her own home; items in her house were tagged with the name of the person to whom she wanted to bequeath them. She expressed a desire for people to say their goodbyes and pick up their bequeath items before she died, and did not wish to be drugged. She planned to be buried in a forest in Upstate New York.[10] She had additionally preselected a funeral director and a shroud.[9]
After being diagnosed with untreatable pancreatic cancer in October 2022, Weisberger called Leland the following month, inviting him to report on the end of her life (and asking him to bring her a cannabis edible). On November 18, she told Leland that she was getting her wish of experiencing the process of dying, and that while she was in extreme pain and unable to sleep she was "experiencing the best time of [her] life".[9]
In preparation for her death, Weisberger contacted her estranged son. She attempted to do the same with her daughter, who was unwilling to reconnect. Despite difficulty caused by a labor shortage and high costs, she secured in-home hospice care with the aid of friends and a GoFundMe created by Jewish Voice for Peace.[9] By November 21, she was in the company of friends and hospice care, and on that day two film crews came to her apartment; Vogue was working on a profile of her. Despite her wishes not to be drugged before her death, she wore a fentanyl patch to reduce pain, and had a morphine elixir, but had not yet used it.[9]
Weisberger had a "pain emergency" on November 25 and increased her dosage of pain medication. On November 30, she postponed an interview with Vogue and did not see visitors, increasing her medication again. She died at 12:40 a.m. on December 1.
References
- ^ a b c d e f Saper, Jay (December 15, 2022). "Shatzi Weisberger, the People's Bubbie, Dies at 92". Autostraddle. Retrieved January 5, 2023.
- ^ a b c d e f Elana Stein and Shatzi Weisberger (May 14, 2020). JVP-NYC in conversation with death educator Shatzi Weisberger (Videotape). Jewish Voice for Peace. Retrieved December 5, 2022 – via YouTube.
- ^ a b c d e f g h i Essa, Azad (May 28, 2021). "Meet the 90-year-old Jewish American woman protesting for Palestine". Middle East Eye. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ^ a b c d Reiff, Ben (January 5, 2023). "'Love in organizing': A tribute to a queer Jew for Palestine". +972 Magazine. Retrieved January 5, 2023.
- ^ a b c d e f g h Leah, Anna (June 17, 2020). "This 90-year-old New York activist fought racist housing practices, was a nurse during the AIDS epidemic, and is now protesting for Black Lives Matter". Business Insider. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ^ a b c d e f g "Glorious Broad #15: Shatzi Weisberger". Glorious Broads. August 20, 2020. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ^ I am Shatzi. And this is what I stand for (Videotape). DOROT. August 10, 2016. Retrieved December 5, 2022 – via YouTube.
- ^ a b Weisberger, Shatzi (June 23, 2020). "All I Want For My 90th Birthday Is To Abolish The Police And Build Our Dream World". HuffPost. Retrieved December 7, 2022.
- ^ ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved December 9, 2022.
- ^ a b c d e f g h i j Masters, Jeffrey (April 28, 2022). "Shatzi Weisberger: Meet The 91-Year-Old Death Educator". The Advocate. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ^ ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ^ a b Fahey, Maryjane (August 28, 2020). "3 Activists Over 65 Weigh In, and Act Out, on Black Lives Matter". Next Avenue. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ^ a b Skinner, Paige (December 1, 2022). "Shatzi Weisberger, Who Was Beloved As The People's Bubbie, Has Died at Age 92". BuzzFeed News. Retrieved December 2, 2022.
- ^ a b c d Riedel, Samantha (December 2, 2022). "Shatzi Weisberger, Activist Legend Known as the People's Bubbie, Has Died at 92". Them. Retrieved December 3, 2022.
- ^ a b c d Essa, Azad (December 2, 2022). "Tributes pour in for Jewish American anti-Zionist activist Shatzi Weisberger". Middle East Eye. Retrieved December 3, 2022.
- ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved April 29, 2022.
- ^ "LGBTQ&A: Shatzi Weisberger: Remembering The People's Bubbie (1930–2022) on Apple Podcasts". Apple Podcasts. Retrieved December 4, 2022.
- ^ @jvpny (December 1, 2022). "With full and heavy hearts, we want to share with you all that Shatzi Weisberger, the Peoples Bubbie, 92-year-old antizionist Jew, lesbian, abolitionist, nurse, and lifelong organizer died last night. Shatzi was in her own home when she died, exactly according to her wishes..." – via Instagram.